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ReImaginers…

12 Monday Aug 2013

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big girl pants, Celtic August celebrations, dinner from Homer's, fill us up, hunger for, insight and depth, laughter, ReImaginers, safe place, taking down decorations, topped up the gas tank, wonderful evening

raced home from work, although I did stop to top up the gas tank… it was on less than a quarter of a tank, which makes me nervous… all filled up now… didn’t even seem like that big of a job, as I continue with those big girl pants I am getting used to some of the things that I had never done previously…

even this morning when I drove downtown and parked in a different parking lot and used my credit card to pay for the day I didn’t worry about it at all…

got home and put out the cushions on the chairs in the garden and the first of our group arrived… tonight there were six of us… we can go up to 11 or 12…

had a lovely dinner from Homer’s on the deck, with delicious mini cupcakes from the Cupcake Corner, yum…

dinner on the deck and then we moved inside for our program...

dinner on the deck and then we moved inside for our program…

we read about Celtic August celebrations and talked about what we hungered for and what filled us up…

these wonderful women continue to amaze me with their insight and depth… when we are together there is always laughter, and often tears, but this is a safe place where we can be our true selves and no one judges… we are there to support one another in whatever way is needed at the time…

the garden was admired with the new pond and the plantings, as well as the bubbles around the space from the party… now I will take the decorations down and hopefully have it all done over the weekend…

wonderful evening… I am filled up…

ready…

11 Sunday Aug 2013

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big girl pants, cleaned up from party, laundry done, mirrors and bubbles, missing my beloved, ready, tomorrow's company, travellers arrived

well I’m as ready as I’m going to be for tomorrow’s company for dinner and the evening…

it has taken quite a while to get everything cleaned up from the party… but it was fun as I remembered different things that took place while we prepared or during the party…

deck tidy and ready should we decide to eat out there...

deck tidy and ready should we decide to eat out there…

the dining room is ready, the kitchen is tidy and the deck and garden look lovely…

mirrors and bubbles hanging as a reminder of the party...

mirrors and bubbles hanging as a reminder of the party…

I spent a bit of time out there watering and reattaching some of the mirrors that had come down…

sadly I noticed one of the glass balls broken in the bottom of the pond…

pond beautiful for its debut with this group...

pond beautiful for its debut with this group…

got laundry done as well as napping and TV watching… lots of resting amongst the getting ready, lol…

the travellers have all arrived, some to a hotel in Ottawa and the others back home from camping…

tomorrow the cleaner comes so not only will it be tidy, it will be clean…

missing my beloved today… he would have helped me make sure everything was perfect for tomorrow and we would have talked about how great the party was as we put things away…

 

packing up…

08 Thursday Aug 2013

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big girl pants, family dinner, lonely tomorrow, packing up

rushed home from work to get a chicken stuffed and in the oven for a family dinner… last night that Cyndi and Ron are here so we wanted to all be together…

they had taken the boys out for the afternoon while Crystal and Jeff got some shopping done…

last night I made the stuffing and a very nice gazpacho for our Souper Club at work so didn’t have to do too much tonight… made a Caprese salad, organized mashed potatoes and then Crystal cut up the chicken while Jeff mashed the potatoes…

all the family together for dinner...

all the family together for dinner…

some hot tubbed, some relaxed outside and some relaxed inside… dinner was very nice out on the deck and we toasted with some champagne…

hot tub fun...

hot tub fun…

great way to end the “too short” visit, although they have stayed here longer than anywhere else on their journey, lol…  we three girls spent some time discussing what to do with George’s ashes… it was interesting to see where each of us was for this discussion… one felt the ashes in a box just wasn’t right, another felt that putting some here and some there

as I write this Cyndi is moving around gathering things to be packed up so that they can leave first thing in the morning to reach Thunder Bay tomorrow night…

Ron has uploaded new programming for my computer and is also beginning the packing portion of the evening…

gonna be lonely tomorrow, Cyndi and Ron leave for Ottawa and Crystal, Jeff and the boys head out for a birthday camping trip…

pahty…

06 Tuesday Aug 2013

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big girl pants, everyone had a good time, great fun, pahty, prepping, sore feet, wonderful children, wonderful desserts, yum

well, my feet are rather tired as I sit here thinking about the great pahty…

we spent the whole day prepping… Cyndi and Ron worked like trojans this morning and I got home right after noon and we worked away getting ready… always a lot of fun to prepare for a great event…

lots of eating and drinking...

lots of eating and drinking…

lots of people were able to make it… and everyone had a good time… people enjoyed the food, the fun and the company…

yummy food...

yummy food…

still thinking about the wonderful desserts that Crystal made for the event… yum…

how lucky I am to have such wonderful children…

me and my girls...

me and my girls…

ready for bed…

02 Friday Aug 2013

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big girl pants, lost Costco card, pantry door, ready for bed

been quite a busy day… got up around 6:30 to put out the garbage, recycling and yard waste…had my neighbour help me move the new very heavy chair into position…  then worked on the to do today list…

went to Rona, Costco, and Family Foods, as well as having my hair cut… got home in time for a quick bite before Dan the Carpenter came by to put a door on my pantry… rather a fancy name for some shelves  by the back door… I’ve wanted a door for ages so am very happy, although every time I walk past it I think it looks strange but no doubt I will get used to it…

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got a number of things for the big party on Tuesday at Costco and when I got to the cash register couldn’t find the Costco card… lost it somewhere in the store while I was shopping… kind of freaked out wondering what was going to happen, but a staff person sent me off to find another person who provided me with my number and I was able to get my groceries… then I had to go and get a new card… I guess a Costco card is a good one to lose if you have to lose a card… think it was the first one I have ever lost…

have so much stuff in the freezer that I can’t squeeze another thing in there… don’t even think I can make any more of the pretty ice cubes I have been working on…

taking up the old disgusting boards...

taking up the old disgusting boards…

after Dan finished the door he fixed six deck boards which had oil spilled on them and they looked really awful… we’ve tried scrubbing with soap and water, putting on grease remover and nothing made a difference so I just decided to replace them and be done with it… looks great now…

beautiful new deck boards...

beautiful new deck boards…

he left, and just after that, Jeff arrived… he fixed one of the flower bed frames, got a pump going, moved many boxes into the basement closet, got the wii working, put together two tables and moved chairs from the main floor to the basement… then we had a hot tub, planned the next few days and he headed home…

I am ready for bed… there are still a few jobs to be done tomorrow, but it doesn’t feel overwhelming…

anniversary…

01 Thursday Aug 2013

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43 years, anniversary, being home with children, big girl pants, filled with emotion, garden sanctuary, grand kids, idyllic life, married my beloved, protocol for celebrating, roses, smaller nest, Sunday dinner, visited the West Coast

forty-three years ago today I married my beloved… it was an amazing day filled with emotion…

August 1, 1970...

August 1, 1970…

we worked for eight years before having our first child and made the decision that I would stay home with the children as long as we could manage… two years later along came our second child…

we had an idyllic life and I had the amazing privilege of being home with my girls throughout their years of school… George worked the whole time and we managed very well…

the girls left home and we enjoyed our slightly smaller nest… we got to do different things but also had lots of time with the kids… our grand kids came along and we had wonderful times with them…

since the girls left home we have had Sunday dinners together and the places around the table have grown and shrunk and grown depending on who was available on any particular Sunday night…

we got to visit the West Coast a number of times when Cyndi and Ron moved out there, and had lots of amazing time in our garden sanctuary…

we both went through some health issues and life wasn’t perfect, but it was our life…

these are the things I have been thinking about today…

August 1, 2011...

August 1, 2011…

a day doesn’t go by that I don’t remember the love of my life and think how proud he would be of me as I continue the steps along this new journey in my life…

today was filled with emotion as well, most of it happy, with a few tears…

I wonder what the protocol is for celebrating anniversaries once your spouse is no longer alive… do you forget them, ignore them, pretend they don’t happen… do you take off your wedding ring because you aren’t technically married… these are also things I’ve been pondering the last few days…

40 roses to celebrate 40 years...

40 roses to celebrate 40 years…

as I move forward in this new life I will continue to ponder these questions… maybe you have some answers…

roses the kids sent last year to remember...

roses the kids sent last year to remember…

English Garden…

29 Monday Jul 2013

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big girl pants, ended with pouring rain, English Garden, great time in the hot tub, lovely pictures, lovely walk, Sabai Thai, wonderful evening

picked up by a friend as soon as I got home from work and we went to Sabai Thai for dinner… it was delicious… my favourite was the hottest one…

then we headed to the English Garden and had a lovely walk… got some great pictures…

beautiful pink flowers...

beautiful pink flowers…

headed home and met another friend and the three of us had a fun time in the hot tub, that ended when the rain really started to pour down on us…

lianthus, reminds me of a rose...

lianthus, reminds me of a rose…

wonderful evening…

purple-y thistle...

purple-y thistle…

sparrows…

28 Sunday Jul 2013

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at the feeder, big girl pants, drinking from the pond, follow shade around, sitting in the cedars, sparrows

this afternoon the sparrows took over the garden…

they were everywhere… a number came to the feeder… and if you watched you could see them taking their turn… some would sit in among the Virginia creeper while others took spaces on the garage roof and top of the hook that holds the feeder… eventually everyone had their turn…

sparrows taking turns at the feeder...

sparrows taking turns at the feeder…

they are also enjoying the pond… I still haven’t seen any having a bath like they used to with the old waterfall but they certainly stop by for a drink…

sparrows checking out the new view...

sparrows checking out the new view…

they were all over the waterfall stone and the bridge having little conversations as they had their drinks…

walking along the bridge...

walking along the bridge…

then they sat at the edge of the cedars… haven’t seen them do that for quite some time, but it also might have been where I was sitting as I could see the cedars very well from my spot beside the hot tub… when I am in the garden, I have to move from spot to spot as I follow the shade around…

sparrows sitting in the cedars...

sparrows sitting in the cedars…

it was lovely to spend time watching them as I was reading my book…

leaning in for a drink...

leaning in for a drink…

not sure if this little guy was drinking or wondering what the fish were doing, lol…

 

planting…

27 Saturday Jul 2013

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baskets, big girl pants, car stuffed, hydrangeas, planting, set plants in the space, Shelmerdine, shrub

got up and headed to Shelmerdine’s to get there right after they opened…

wanted some baskets to set in pots to fill up some of the empty space around the new pond area…

after talking with a very helpful woman I bought a shrub and a number of smaller plants to fill in the area…

had a lot of fun… barely stuffed everything into the car… then I stopped at Paterson’s and bought two more baskets, lol…

got home and had to dig out the hydrangeas, which have been dying… likely because they don’t like full sun, sigh…

set the new plants in the garden and have left them until tomorrow to be sure they are in the right spots… don’t want to have to plant them more than once…

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remembering…

26 Friday Jul 2013

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big girl pants, drugs, hot tub, nephew, pain, remembering, roses

last night I spent some time in the hot tub remembering…

last year at this time I was home but barely moving… getting in and out of the bed was very painful and I needed constant help… my nephew spent the first few days with me because they let me out of the hospital early and the friend who was coming hadn’t arrived yet…

he had to literally lift me to get out of bed… the pain was fairly high as I wasn’t taking any drugs… and even though I had stopped taking them within 12 hours of the surgery there were still residual effects which continued to make me feel sick…

it was months before I was able to get back into the hot tub…

so that’s what I was remembering…

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