• Background…
  • Here’s the Scoop!

herbiggirlpants

~ the new reality of a "70 something"

herbiggirlpants

Tag Archives: anniversary

ladybugs…

11 Sunday Oct 2015

Posted by sulis303 in health, life, nature, Uncategorized

≈ Leave a comment

Tags

anniversary, big girl pants, George, hibernation, ladybugs, preparing, romantic, roses, trees, walk

absolutely gorgeous day…

took a walk to the grocery store to pick up a few things for tomorrow’s dinner…

came across this beautiful tree… admired it when I passed it the first time and had to stop to take a picture when I came back…

  
also got a shot of some Virginia creeper berries…

  
there aren’t any leaves left on them… that frost last week did a lot of plants in…

the ladybugs have been out in full force for the last few days… yesterday there were five at once on the bedroom window…

today they were on the door when I left the house, landed on me as I was walking and were inside and outside the house…

   

not sure why they are everywhere… from a bit of reading it looks like the warm weather might have woken them up from hibernation…

I also spent some time preparing vegetables, more stuffing and cranberry sauce…

  
friends are celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary which made me spend a bit of time remembering ours… it was when I was in hospital with pancreatitis and waiting for gall bladder surgery… we had missed a trip to the coast to see the kids because I got sick…

on our anniversary George brought in a basket with 40 roses in it… it was amazing… at night they had to put it into the hall because the perfume was so strong, lol… he was such a romantic…

good times… 

 

forty-five…

01 Saturday Aug 2015

Posted by sulis303 in health, life, nature

≈ Leave a comment

Tags

anniversary, beloved, big girl pants, forty-five, memories

  
forty-five years ago today I married the love of my life… we had a wonderful journey…

this is the fourth year that I have been on my own… doesn’t get much easier, but I have spent the day with my daughter and grandsons and focussed on the many memories of fun times…

there was horseback riding… for some of us… one young person decided they weren’t going so I climbed down off my horse and waited with him…

  
miniature golf… for all of us… George had enjoyed playing this course…

  
and go-cart racing… not for me, lol… I did think about the last time we came here when I squeezed into the little second seat and screamed all the way around the course while George laughed as he drove…

  
supper out topped off a great day…

last night I slept under the full (blue) moon on the deck… good thing I did because it looks like it is going to rain tonight…

  
barely any mosquitoes:-)…

to my beloved…

  

down…

06 Wednesday Aug 2014

Posted by sulis303 in life, Uncategorized

≈ Leave a comment

Tags

anniversary, beloved, big girl pants, bison steak, down, tears

feeling a bit down today… could be because I wasn’t feeling well for most of the day…

was talking with a friend recently about our lost partners… I was mentioning how I had no tears on Friday and that felt surprising, but good…

but I am wondering if this might also be a response to getting through another anniversary…

had the kids for bison steak dinner with new potatoes, mushrooms and Caesar salad… it was lovely, although the youngest felt they had just been here for dinner, and that they should only come once a week, lol…

IMG_6925.JPGone day at a time…

today…

01 Friday Aug 2014

Posted by sulis303 in life, Uncategorized

≈ 1 Comment

Tags

anniversary, beloved, outdoor movies, pond, string algae, today, whipper snipper

today marked 44 years since I married my beloved… I decided to spend the day at home and remember the fun times we enjoyed over the years…

spent a good portion of the day in the garden… mowed the grass and then took an hour to research and wrap the cord on the spool for the whipper snipper… not sure if it is right but will have Jeff check it out on Monday…

20140801-215846-79126441.jpgspent some time reading and even did a bit of weeding…

20140801-220014-79214750.jpgthink I have found something to get rid of the string algae, so ran out and picked up the powder from Pet Traders and put some of it into the far end of the pond… will see how it looks tomorrow…

Crystal and the three boys came over after she got off work and we picked up pizza and chicken wings, took it to the Park and had our supper as we waited for Friday night movies at the Lyric…

20140801-220451-79491475.jpgafter we watched The Croods, we headed home and I read outside in the garden until it was dark and then came in…

a lovely day filled with good memories and no tears…

20140801-223028-81028411.jpg

anniversary…

01 Thursday Aug 2013

Posted by sulis303 in Uncategorized

≈ 3 Comments

Tags

43 years, anniversary, being home with children, big girl pants, filled with emotion, garden sanctuary, grand kids, idyllic life, married my beloved, protocol for celebrating, roses, smaller nest, Sunday dinner, visited the West Coast

forty-three years ago today I married my beloved… it was an amazing day filled with emotion…

August 1, 1970...

August 1, 1970…

we worked for eight years before having our first child and made the decision that I would stay home with the children as long as we could manage… two years later along came our second child…

we had an idyllic life and I had the amazing privilege of being home with my girls throughout their years of school… George worked the whole time and we managed very well…

the girls left home and we enjoyed our slightly smaller nest… we got to do different things but also had lots of time with the kids… our grand kids came along and we had wonderful times with them…

since the girls left home we have had Sunday dinners together and the places around the table have grown and shrunk and grown depending on who was available on any particular Sunday night…

we got to visit the West Coast a number of times when Cyndi and Ron moved out there, and had lots of amazing time in our garden sanctuary…

we both went through some health issues and life wasn’t perfect, but it was our life…

these are the things I have been thinking about today…

August 1, 2011...

August 1, 2011…

a day doesn’t go by that I don’t remember the love of my life and think how proud he would be of me as I continue the steps along this new journey in my life…

today was filled with emotion as well, most of it happy, with a few tears…

I wonder what the protocol is for celebrating anniversaries once your spouse is no longer alive… do you forget them, ignore them, pretend they don’t happen… do you take off your wedding ring because you aren’t technically married… these are also things I’ve been pondering the last few days…

40 roses to celebrate 40 years...

40 roses to celebrate 40 years…

as I move forward in this new life I will continue to ponder these questions… maybe you have some answers…

roses the kids sent last year to remember...

roses the kids sent last year to remember…

reminiscing…

13 Saturday Apr 2013

Posted by sulis303 in Uncategorized

≈ Leave a comment

Tags

adventure, anniversary, Goose Spit, gorgeous trees, heart failure, life has changed, Mount Washington, Puntledge, reminiscing, trip to Courtenay

recently I had to work on the desktop computer because my laptop was being a bit fussy, and I spent some lovely moments checking out pictures…  the desktop shares pictures with the laptop but it doesn’t work the other way around… found some lovely ones of the garden and George… also reminded me of how long ago some things happened…

it always seems like it was just a couple of years ago that something took place, but when you check out the pictures you realize it might be that six or eight years have passed…

also spent some time going through photo albums and I took out a great one that Cyndi had made for us from our family trip to Courtenay… I realize that it was five years ago…

the top of Mount Washington was rather cool...

the top of Mount Washington was rather cool…

it reminded me of the trip across the country with the kids, and meeting up with everyone else there…  George was slowly recovering from his heart failure and couldn’t drive out with us… the doctor advised that he needed to fly which would be less of a stress on his body…  Crystal and Jeff and the two boys drove out around the same time and we had a lovely time together and got to see all the special places around Courtenay…

fun time at Goose Spit...

fun time at Goose Spit…

we all loved Goose Spit and had a wiener roast on the beach together… that year, on our anniversary, we took the little boys for a walk along the Puntledge early in the morning so that all the grownups could sleep in a bit…

it was a wonderful time and we had an adventure when we took a wrong path and wandered down a tiny waterway that didn’t really go anywhere… we saw slugs and bugs, and I got a wonderful picture of George and the boys stretching their arms out to circle one of the very large trees…

George and the boys stretching to reach around the tree...

George and the boys stretching to reach around the tree…

wow, five years… amazing what things have happened in that time…  how my life has changed…

Complications…

04 Friday Jan 2013

Posted by sulis303 in Uncategorized

≈ Leave a comment

Tags

anniversary, beloved, complications, Employment Insurance, sick leave, telephone tag

this morning I received a phone call at 7:36 am… I was a bit worried when I answered it – usually phone calls that early don’t bode well…  it was a woman from Canada Employment Insurance who I had been playing telephone tag with for a few weeks…

I had received a letter from her a number of weeks ago, stating that I had not provided correct information about how much CPP I was collecting while I was on EI following my surgery in July…  the letter had felt rather threatening, mentioning they might grab back a portion of what they had paid me while I was off work…

she had left a message during our tag game and it sounded like she was saying that, in fact, they had underpaid me, but that didn’t seem to go with the letter so I was confused…

usually I wouldn’t be home at 7:36, but because I had a 9 am doctor’s appointment I was still here…  she advised that they really did owe me money – $10 to be exact, and she would do all the necessary paperwork and a cheque would be sent, in due course… which means in a number of weeks…

it brought back memories of July, 2010, when I ended up in the hospital with pancreatitis and then had my gall bladder removed… we were planning to head to BC to visit Cyndi and Ron for our vacation the day after I landed in the hospital…

it was a very stress-filled time and George used his whole vacation time to sit by my bed and try to help me any way he could… I was very sick and for six weeks couldn’t eat or drink anything and was throwing up all the time… not really much fun to be around…  finally I was well enough to have the gall bladder surgery and a few days after the surgery it was our 40th wedding anniversary…

my beloved brought me 40 roses in a beautiful arrangement… I have just searched the computer but can’t find pictures of them… (6Jan13 – Cyndi sent me some pics of the flowers and I am added them here!).

the kleenex box shows how big the basket was...

the Kleenex box shows how big the basket was…

all of that made me think back to the EI process we went through then… I had used up all my sick leave, vacation time and overtime before I applied for EI and got it fairly soon after applying… it came in very handy as I was off work for nearly three months and toward the end of that time Crystal got married…

this time when I knew I was going to have surgery I had been in touch with the EI folks and got instructions on what to do ahead of time…  so, like they told me, I applied for EI the day I went on sick leave and completed the necessary online forms… nothing went right from that moment… each time I would speak to someone, or complete a form, I would be advised to call… I would call only to get a recording saying call back, which I did, many times…  when I would finally get a human on the other end of the phone, they would say to do something completely different than the previous person had advised…  this went on throughout the whole time I was off and trying to collect the EI…  to make it even more confusing I was getting CPP as a survivor and then began collecting myself…

whew…  so it was good to have this woman contact me with the information that I hadn’t done anything wrong, or entered incorrect information… it was their little mistake…

so I will watch the mail for that $10 cheque…

40 roses to celebrate 40 years...

40 roses to celebrate 40 years…

Newer posts →

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 518 other subscribers

Previous

Tags

beloved big girl pants birds blessed chocolate Christmas cold dinner family fish flowers food friends fun garden George grandson grandsons happy health hibiscus hot tub light lunch memories moments morning glories nature orchid photos pictures plants pond purple rain remembering shopping sky snow sun sunshine supper Technology time treat trees walk water weather widow

Blog at WordPress.com.

  • Subscribe Subscribed
    • herbiggirlpants
    • Join 518 other subscribers
    • Already have a WordPress.com account? Log in now.
    • herbiggirlpants
    • Subscribe Subscribed
    • Sign up
    • Log in
    • Report this content
    • View site in Reader
    • Manage subscriptions
    • Collapse this bar
 

Loading Comments...