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in the moment…

27 Wednesday Mar 2013

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beloved, blessing, healthy, in the moment, journey, move forward, sandals, Spring

well, this morning I put on a spring coat and wore my sandals to work…  I have worn sandals at work all winter, but wore boots to and from…  but this morning the sun was shining and it was supposed to go to 0 degrees, so I decided it was time to move into spring…

the sandals might have been a little early, but it was wonderful to have them on instead of boots…

a little chilly on the toes this morning...

a little chilly on the toes this morning…

was talking with someone who mentioned George’s memorial service… I don’t remember much about it because I was dealing with a health issue at the time and was focussed on that, and not fully on what was happening around me… maybe that was a blessing…

It did remind me of the fact that last March I was afraid to walk down the street because I might have a problem with my body…  I had spoken with my doctor and we were in agreement that I needed a hysterectomy and I was waiting to get in to see a specialist, but it was a very stress-filled time…

what a difference a year makes, in so many ways… I am healthy and can do most anything these days without any worries…

I miss my beloved but each day I am learning strategies to move forward on this new journey…

friends…

12 Tuesday Mar 2013

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death of a partner, friendship, move forward, Saturday Night Widows, women friends

watched a small portion of Katie when I got home from work tonight before heading out to aquasize…

it was about a book titled – Saturday Night Widows… by a woman who attended a support group after her husband died and was told by the facilitator that she really didn’t fit in and shouldn’t come to the group again… she was looking for women who wanted to move forward, not just look back… she started a group with other women who were widowed and apparently the rest is history – or a book, lol…

in the interview with Katie Couric they talked about how important friends are when something devastating like the death of a partner happens…

made me think of my groups of women friends and how we have been there for each other over the years… without them these last twelve months would have been so much more difficult…

we had our first BS gathering on Monday with one of us connecting via Skype as she has moved to Regina for a contract…  there were only two of us here, but it was great to connect and see some of her surroundings…

the hands of the women who know my heart...

the hands of women who know my heart…

friendship is such a gift…

 

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