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maps…

03 Thursday Oct 2019

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beloved, big girl pants, google, maps, moments, paper, Technology, widow

a few years ago my daughter introduced me to the Google maps app…

I have really found it to be helpful…

I’m a visual person and like to know where I am going, so looking up an address and then seeing a picture of the spot, or something close by is very reassuring…

I have to take back the crutches I rented from the hospital and now know exactly where I have to go… takes the stress out of finding a new place, lol…

reminded me of trying to find things in the past with a paper map… trying to unfold and refold, depending on the spot we were trying to get to… and rarely getting it put back correctly… sometimes there might have been some grumbling…

technology can be wonderful;-)…

cane…

21 Saturday Sep 2019

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beloved, big girl pants, cane, family, friend, memories, parents, parties, widow

been thinking a lot of our dear friend Margaret…

she was my parents’ neighbour and our good friend since I was about fifteen…

I remember our Chinese food parties on payday Fridays… my beloved and I would go over and mom and dad would come from next door and we would have a delicious dinner…

she enjoyed the girls when they came along and loved spending time with them…

the cane I am using belonged to her…

I can remember saying to her later in her life “you have to put the cane on the ground, not just carry it”…

lovely memories…

2500…

19 Thursday Sep 2019

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2500, beloved, big girl pants, blessed, blogs, Life, memories, missing, moments, moving forward, one step at a time, time, widow

today marks my 2,500th blog post…

seems like an amazing accomplishment for me…

hard to believe that on December 1st, 2012, I started writing this blog so that I could share about the changes to my life and the things I’ve had to do following the death of my beloved…

there was such a learning curve about all the issues I have had to deal with as a widow…

it has morphed into more of a daily journal of my life and what I see around me…

it is also hard to realize that my beloved has been gone for 7 1/2 years – that’s 90 months – 2,751 days… an instant… forever…

although I am truly blessed, I sure do miss him…

knee…

15 Sunday Sep 2019

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big girl pants, breakfast, emergency room, family, knee, leg, widow

well, yesterday did not turn out as planned…

my grandson was coming over around nine so we could have breakfast at the “A”… then we were going to be picked up and go to St. Norbert Farmers Market… from there we were planning to stop at some grocery stores for a few goodies…

I got dressed, put on a jacket and started walking to breakfast… I just made it past the end of the street when my leg basically stopped working… it was so painful that I couldn’t put any weight on it…

I called and had my grandson pick me up from where I was… he practically had to carry me to the car… we went home, picked up my medical card and drove to Grace Hospital…

he knew just what to do… ran in, got a chair for me, and then took me right to the registration clerks…

I really appreciated this as I was not able to put any weight on it… he volunteers at St. Boniface on a regular basis…

I saw the triage nurse right away and then we waited… were moved into a room and met with a physician’s assistant who decided on an X-ray, ice and some pain meds… eventually they decided on a walker or crutches and keeping my leg elevated at home… we decided on crutches and were home by three…

then there was the entertainment of getting up the three steps and over the threshold into the house… not really that fun…

neighbours came out from both sides to see what was going on and I discovered that one was a nurse… she gave me her number in case I needed her;-)…

this was me laying on the pullout couch on the main floor with a tv going and a bag of frozen peas under my knee… a friend was by, tidied the kitchen, set me up with tea, snacks, additional pillows and a reminder to take it slow;-)…

going to be an interesting few days I think, lol…

pole…

11 Wednesday Sep 2019

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big girl pants, bird, Downy Woodpecker, feeder, phone, photos, pole, widow

my daughter called yesterday morning and while we were chatting I looked out the window and spotted this downy woodpecker…

it first landed on the metal pole and I was very worried it might try to drill into the metal and hurt itself, lol…

while we were on the phone I took quite a few photos as it moved over and gathered sunflower seeds…

not sure I’ve ever seen one of these guys at the feeder…

riding…

08 Sunday Sep 2019

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big girl pants, family, horses, jumping, memories, riding, sister-in-law, Spruce Meadows, widow

been enjoying some show jumping on TV from Spruce Meadows…

beautiful horses and quite amazing riding…

reminded me of my wonderful sister-in-law who came for a visit last weekend… she’s been recovering from a riding accident in June…

it was lovely to have her in the garden…

portions…

06 Friday Sep 2019

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big girl pants, corn, CSA, dinner, family, garden, memories, portion, remembering, tomato, widow

yesterday we got our weekly portions of our CSA box…

four of us share one and it works perfectly as a couple of us only feed ourselves, lol…

my pile, after a colleague and I divvied it up, included a leek, an ear of corn, a large tomato, potatoes and a bulb of garlic…

for supper I had the corn and tomato… when I was a kid this would often be a supper once harvest season arrived, although I think we also had bread and butter…

reminds me of my mom and dad;-)…

I did add some beautiful shrimp (and some of the garlic) to the menu…

yum…

magic…

02 Monday Sep 2019

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big girl pants, camping, family, garden, grandson, magic, making memories, moments, pizza, pond, widow, Za

yesterday my grandson came over…

he cleaned the pump in the pond, but for some reason it wouldn’t start up… will have to get my son-in-law over to see if his magic fingers can get it going…

we went to Za Pizza Bistro for supper with some out-of-town family… first time I’ve been there and it was delicious… I was able to have a white sauce on mine, which I really enjoy, and the crust was thin and crispy… it was great fun choosing the exact toppings I wanted…

before it got dark he headed home on his bike…

I really enjoy spending time with him…

hands-on…

30 Friday Aug 2019

Posted by sulis303 in camping, family, nature, Photography, travel, Uncategorized

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beach, big girl pants, blessed, boating, camping, family, hands-on, memories, waterfall, widow

our last day of camping was sunny but windy…

after a hike along the beach the decision was made not to take the boat out… the whitecaps were big…

got some great photos along the way…

so, we packed up and headed toward home… we stopped at Seven Sisters Falls on the way and had a lovely wander along the river…

beautiful scenery… a reminder of lovely visits that my beloved and I took to this spot… it was fun for the boys to see it for the first time…

while we were there the boys spotted many frogs… made me giggle because I often take photos of frogs… they use a much more hands-on approach…

caught…

28 Wednesday Aug 2019

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big girl pants, boating, campfire, camping, caught, family, fishing, merganser, widow

rain stopped around 6 this morning… it was still chilly, but dry, yay…

after breakfast we went out in the boat and spent the day on the water…

we saw a pelican, two deer and maybe a merganser… we fished and my son-in-law caught a couple and I caught one;-)…

it was calm when we took the boat out of the water, nothing like when we crossed the lake – both times – it was very rough…

we baked potatoes around the fire, had steak and mushrooms to go with them, and then for dessert I had a delicious s’more… others may have had more than one, lol… the current method of making them involves using cookies covered in chocolate and then putting a roasted marshmallow between them… much simpler that graham crackers and a piece of chocolate bar…

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