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08 Saturday Dec 2018

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1993, big girl pants, conversation, end, friends, ReImagining, special, together, widow, women

since 1993 I’ve been meeting with a group of women regularly (nearly monthly) to discuss all kinds of things from religion, to spirituality, to politics, to healthcare, to family life… we’d have supper, check-in with one another, and then spend some time focussed on a topic of interest…

the size and membership of the group has changed over the years but there are a few who were there from the very beginning…

today we met to possibly end our gatherings… we had a wonderful lunch of chicken souvlaki, lemon potatoes, Greek salad and fresh buns… one of the meals we have enjoyed many times over the years…

we’ve met in one another’s homes, made food from scratch, brought food in from fancy shops, and ordered meals… it has always been about being together, more than what we were eating, lol… although we do love to eat;-)…

it was lovely to have the conversation about how important the group has been to everyone…

we’ve decided to continue to meet on a less regular basis, either around the equinox/solstice or a few times a year…

happy to know we will still gather as these are very special people to me… you don’t find women like this just anywhere…

computer…

30 Tuesday Oct 2018

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big girl pants, computer, connect, conversation, pictures, telephone, widow, work

in the middle of a telephone conversation tonight I realized I needed to look for something on the computer I’d brought home from work a month or so ago…

what a process… had to find a spot on my desk… find the slots to plug in the keyboard and mouse and get them in the right way… search through the files only to discover that what I was hoping to find was not there;-)…

in the end had both computers going and kept using the wrong mouse or keyboard and wondering why they weren’t working, lol…

now to get some help transferring everything from the old computer to the new one… not even gonna think about how many pictures I have to move…

meatballs…

26 Thursday Jul 2018

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beet green buns, big girl pants, conversation, friends, George, meatballs, tomato, tomato sandwich, Transport Canada, vacation, widow

just had a lovely conversation with a friend I haven’t seen for years…

we worked together for Transport Canada when we were in our twenties… a couple of years ago, lol…

she made the very best little buns with beet greens inside them that were cooked in a cream sauce… absolutely delicious… I have found no one else who knows how to make them…

she mentioned that every time she makes meatballs she thinks of me… I taught her to use Worcestershire sauce and A1 when making burgers or meatballs… a trick from my dad;-)…

I often think of others when I do or make certain things, but it never occurred to me that others might think of me, lol…

was just thinking of the most amazing tomato sandwiches that George would make…

what a lovely way to start my vacation…

cookie…

12 Wednesday Jul 2017

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amazing, big girl pants, childhood, conversation, cookie, friends, moments, strawberries, supper, widow, women

had a very lovely evening on Monday… 

was picked up from the office by a friend, and went off for supper and a visit with eight other amazing women…

supper was potato salad, three bean salad, chicken breast, strawberries, ice cream, chocolate sauce and chocolate cookies… it was delicious…

actually, I didn’t have the ice cream or the chocolate sauce, but I could not pass up the cookie and strawberries…

we always spend some time discussing an interesting topic… during our conversation we talked about what we remembered of our childhood…

on reflection it seemed like most of the group had not had happy childhoods although at the time it seemed normal…

was very interesting to hear that so many of us did not have the picture perfect childhood that everyone imagines…

tonight I was out with someone else and we discussed the fact that her childhood was nothing to write home about…

it appears that those of a similar age were brought up in a less-happy and more focused manner than we imagined everyone else was…

interesting conversations… 

wonder how our children will view their childhoods…

fish…

14 Sunday May 2017

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big girl pants, condo, conversation, family, fish, hot tub, kids, Mother's Day, Ottawa, Park, relaxing, retail therapy, walk, widow, Winnipeg

been a full, but good Mother’s Day…

up fairly early, had breakfast and headed over to the Park to check out the daffodils and tulips…

there were lots of tulips blooming and I’m glad I went today because by next weekend they may be finished…

had a few minutes on our bench while I chatted with my Ottawa girl…

early morning is the best time to wander through the Gardens on the weekend because it is still quiet…

home and then out to pick up groceries and flowers – tulips, then back for lunch and a nap…

sat out in the garden until the kids came… they mowed and whipper snipped and moved the fish from their condo to their summer residence…

always an exciting process..

excellent dinner cooked on Barbie the BBQ, lol…

then some online retail therapy with my Winnipeg daughter… ordered a purple metal bracelet for my Fitbit…

planning a hot tub a bit later, but now spending a few minutes by the pond before heading in…

happier…

09 Thursday Feb 2017

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big girl pants, cold, conversation, daylight, happier, light, picture, widow

been in conversation with a number of people recently over the fact that it is lighter every day… although it is very cold today and has been for a few days everyone is chirpier and seems to have lighter steps…

took a picture as I was leaving the house before eight this morning…

look at that daylight… 

ran across to the drugstore and the individuals I passed on the street seemed in better humour as well…

it was overcast for most of the day, but my mood is so much happier with just this little bit of extra light…

supper…

09 Monday Jan 2017

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big girl pants, conversation, friends, nap, ReImagining, snow, supper, weather, widow

was supposed to meet with my ReImagining friends tonight for supper and conversation…

when I left the office the snow was coming down like crazy… I started across town but then decided the weather was too miserable to make the trip…

headed home and got a few shots of the snow coming down when I drove into the garage…

found some leftovers for my supper and am going to have a nap…

acceptance…

21 Monday Nov 2016

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acceptance, big girl pants, Bruno Mars, conversation, Just the Way You Are, rainbow, ReImagining, widow

drove home from a gathering with my ReImagining friends listening to Bruno Mars singing Just the Way You Are…

reminded me of our conversation about spirituality and being accepting of others, and ourselves…

the light made me think of a rainbow this morning…

dark…

11 Tuesday Oct 2016

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aquasize, beloved, big girl pants, conversation, dark, fish and chips, light, widow

yesterday was in a conversation with someone about how dark it is getting in the evening…

they mentioned that by 8 pm the light was fading… sadly tonight as we were coming home from aquasize at 7:25 it was already dark…

was also thinking about how my beloved would make fish and chips for when I’d get home from swimming… I miss that…

this was the light at 7:48 this morning… just getting light out…

motivation…

02 Saturday Apr 2016

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big girl pants, conversation, edit, hot tub, motivation, organize, paper, snow, sun, widow

didn’t make it out to the hot tub last night, but first thing this morning I put on my water boots and trod through the snow to enjoy a great time in the tub…

  
wasn’t too chilly and the sun was shining… 

  

squirrels and blue jays were dashing about with peanuts… the hot tub is a bit overfull so the water was right up to my neck…

had a giggle as I walked back to the house…

  
was just a few weeks ago that I was sitting in this very chair having lunch and getting a bit of sun…

came in and was watching some tv… having trouble getting motivated but a conversation with my daughter helped get me off my butt and doing some organizing in the computer room and bedroom…

  
hard to tell from this picture, but I shredded bags full of paper and packed a box of goodies to give away while organizing my paper supplies… always happy when I can let go of things at the same time as I am looking at them, lol…

still have some work to do in there, lol… 

also spent some time editing jewelry and knick knacks in the bedroom… might have been wise to only focus on one room at a time…

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