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15 Saturday Oct 2016

Posted by sulis303 in family, health, life, loss, nature, Photography, technology, Uncategorized

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big girl pants, Dobby, family, fun, kettle, memories, surgery, Tea, thermos, weekend, widow

I love my tea in the morning… there isn’t time on weekdays to make it at home, so I have tea at the office…

on weekend mornings the first thing I do is fill my kettle to make a pot… 

every time I take it out of the cupboard and fill it with water I think abut my dear friend Dobby who bought it for me after my hysterectomy in 2012… I wasn’t able to lift anything for many weeks afterward and my usual kettle was twice as heavy…

she stayed and looked after me for a week and fed me, entertained me and reorganized my freezer while she was here…

it made all the difference to my recovery as I was still struggling with pain and couldn’t even go up the stairs… she made lovely bits of food to encourage me to eat and helped me get outside to sit and enjoy the sun and fresh air…

so every time I see the kettle I think of her wonderful care…

and now I also remember fun with family… 

this summer I went camping with my kids for a few weeks and I took along the kettle… it became a lifesaver… the first site we were at didn’t have electricity so I’d go to an empty site early in the morning so I could make a thermos of tea… then I realized that if I just put the hot water in the thermos there would be water for the tea I wanted and the coffee the kids like, but needed quite a bit later, lol… it also came in handy to heat up water for dishes…

at our second location we had two sites, one with electricity and one without… we’d put the kettle on the table by the power to heat for tea, coffee, hot chocolate and dish water and would run back and forth to get it for whatever we were working on… lots of fun…

this morning I had a raspberry smoothie with my tea…

great memories…

Dobby…

22 Sunday Mar 2015

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big girl pants, Dobby, kettle, surgery

had a lovely conversation with a good friend who I haven’t seen for a while… 

she has been helping another friend who was recovering from surgery…

reminded me of when she came and stayed with me after my cancer surgery… for a number of weeks I wasn’t able to lift anything over a couple of pounds…
while she was here she cleaned and cooked lovely treats which encouraged me to eat… she also recorded everything that was in my freezer, and made little bits and pieces to go into the freezer to entice me to eat…
and she went out and found me a kettle that wasn’t too heavy which I could pick up once I was on my own…
  
nearly every time I use it I think of her and how well she looked after me…

while she was here I referred to her as Dobby, the kitchen elf…

I’ve been thinking about that a lot this weekend as I have been under the weather…

how lucky was I…

taking time…

28 Monday Oct 2013

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beautiful moon, big girl pants, BS buddies, Dobby, flu shot, headache, healing vibes, omelet, personal difficulties, taking time

on my way out this morning I spotted a beautiful moon in the lovely blue sky…

moon this morning...

moon this morning…

stopped to enjoy it and took a picture, even though I was running a bit behind… been trying to remind myself to enjoy the moment, whatever it may be…

tonight, when I got home I had a little nap as my head had been aching since mid-afternoon and I was hoping that might fix it… didn’t work, but when I got up I made myself a lovely omelet (a la Dobby) which I enjoyed very much…

lovely omelet with mushrooms, green onions, my tomatoes, and cilantro...

lovely omelet with mushrooms, green onions, my tomatoes, and cilantro…

then I rested and watched a bit of tv while waiting for my BS buddies to arrive… four of us had a great time tonight… one of us was home sick with the flu…

tonight I will spend a bit of time thinking and sending healing vibes to many who I know who are currently experiencing personal difficulties…

am thinking that the headache might be a remnant of the flu shot I had on Saturday…

so it is to bed I head…

a year…

18 Thursday Jul 2013

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a year, difficult but healing, Dobby, excellent care, friends, grieve the loss of my beloved, her big girl pants, hysterectomy and ventral hernia repair, my girls, organizing fridge and freezer, roses amongst baby's breath, shifts in the hospital, sister-in-law, surgery, water the plants, wonderful doctors

it is a year today since my hysterectomy and ventral hernia repair…

I can remember the fear, and the relief when I woke up… my sister-in-law coming to be with me and spending the night because I was afraid to be alone following the surgery and having to leave early the next morning to catch a plane to get her to work on time…

frst night at the hospital...

frst night at the hospital…

and I also remember the excellent care I received and the wonderful doctors I dealt with… and how my friends rallied around me with shifts as my support in the hospital, and then at home as I slowly recovered…

I remember the problems with the drugs and how I made the decision to stop taking them just hours after the surgery… the pain was severe but my body was so happy not to have all that stuff in it… drugs just really aren’t my friend…

it was a difficult time but also very healing as during those ten weeks before I was able to get back to normal living I had the opportunity to grieve the loss of my beloved…

thinking back to all the company that came and delivered food, sat with me, and did the things I couldn’t… Dobby who stayed for a week and tempted me with wonderful tidbits to encourage me to eat… organizing the fridge and freezer so when she left I would be able to manage on my own… my nephew staying with me for the first two days after they sent me home early, picking me up and sitting with me through the pain… friends who came by to water the plants because I couldn’t lift anything… my girls doing everything possible for me…

maybe that is what I have been struggling with this week…

now I am healthy and doing well… I can water my own plants, make my own food and do my own chores…  what a difference a year can make…

as someone put it today it seemed like a very long time ago, or was it just a few months?!?!?

roses to celebrate a great year...

roses to celebrate a great year…

the kettle…

11 Monday Mar 2013

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came into my life, couldn't lift over 5 pounds, delectable tidbits, Dobby, gift, good friends, kettle, morning tea, quest

yesterday when I was making my morning tea, looking at the kettle reminded me of when it came into my life…

my friend, Dobby, was here to take care of me after my cancer/hernia surgery in July… she did a wonderful job of tempting me to eat with lovely snacks and drinks throughout the day… she cleaned and tidied, organized my fridge and freezer so that when she left I would have food to eat, and we figured out how I could get water to drink…

the deal was that I wasn’t to lift anything over 5 pounds for 6 weeks…  five pounds isn’t very much and I was being on the careful side because I didn’t want any complications which might slow down my recovery which was slated to be about 10 weeks…

once I was able to move around a bit Dobby would help me onto the deck where I would sit for a while and have some delectable tidbit she had created… just sitting there would raise my feeling of well being and helped with the healing… every day I sat out longer and eventually could take the steps down to the garden where I would sit and soak up the peace and beauty…

before she left, she went on a quest to find a kettle that wasn’t too heavy so that I could make tea, and this is the one she found…

my perfect little electric kettle...

my perfect little electric kettle…

it is perfect, because it fills my carafe exactly… my other kettle was beautiful, but held about twice the water that was needed and so was also that much heavier…

my tea carafe...

my tea carafe…

really, how would I have managed without such good friends…  they are such a gift…

 

 

 

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