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11 Monday Nov 2019

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on this Remembrance Day, I watched the Ottawa ceremony on tv, thinking of the members of my family and all the others whose service provided us with the freedom we enjoy… I also thought proudly of my sick son-in-law who was participating in the service I was watching…

then when I was in the kitchen I decided to make a few dishes from those who have left us…

I started with homemade coleslaw which I’ve been craving for a while… it is based on a recipe from a special woman who often fed large groups of people, so my well-worn recipe has a few different options for measurements, lol…

then I made chicken and dumplings, one of my mom’s recipes…

finally I decided on meatballs and sauce… I used store-bought meatballs but made my dad’s homemade sauce… the recipe is just in my head… I cooked spaghetti and packaged meals for lunches and suppers this week…

will share some of these meals as I don’t like to freeze things if I don’t have to;-)…

ended the evening with my BS buddies… I truly am blessed…

oil…

10 Sunday Nov 2019

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made fish and chips for my supper recently…

the house smelled of cooking oil… triggered some lovely memories…

on aquasize night when I got home, there would always be fish and chips ready…

and my beloved made the world’s best french fries…

gentle…

09 Saturday Nov 2019

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been thinking of my dad a lot recently… his birthday was in November and he spent time overseas as a soldier, so during these days of remembrance it just seems right to look back at some lovely memories…

this photo is from Then to Now, the history of La Salle, Manitoba…

a gentle man, in all ways… he spoke quietly but if you were in trouble you knew it… not that you’d be in trouble very often…

he always saw the best in people, which made him particularly suited for his work with Canada Manpower where he helped individuals figure out what type of work they were best suited for, and then found them an appropriate position… in those days you might only have one or two jobs in your career…

at home, he took in strays… not animals, lol, people… we would often have someone staying with us who needed a safe place to regroup for a while…

he was wise and generous… one of those people who always had a thoughtful opinion when you needed it, although, only when asked… and would give you the shirt off his back, or anything else he had, if he felt it would help…

he has been gone for over thirty years but I can still hear his wisdom…

I miss you dad…

need…

05 Tuesday Nov 2019

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taking a quiet moment;-)…

beauty is everywhere… just need to take the time to see it…

widow…

04 Monday Nov 2019

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just reached 350 followers on WordPress…

laughed the other day when a friend introduced me and said that I had 3000 followers… really made me giggle, lol… 300… 3000… very close;-)…

it has taken six years to reach that number…

had me thinking of the changes over that time… how the blog has gone from information on what to do when you become a widow/widower to my daily life…

my life really has been blessed… as I continue to put on those big girl pants…

backing…

30 Wednesday Oct 2019

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picked up a poppy the other day…

dug around and found a backing piece and put the poppy on my jacket… I hate to lose them…

it feels important to wear this sign of respect for our veterans and those who serve now…

I remember my mom and dad, my father-in-law and my son-in-law…

vaccine…

24 Thursday Oct 2019

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interesting that today I got my flu shot… finally had the chance to check to see if the drug store across the street had the vaccine available…

all over the news tonight they have been talking about how tough and early this year’s flu season might be…

was part of a conversation about why a person might or might not get the shot…

for me, it has to do with my own health, but also with being in proximity of individuals who are immune compromised… I don’t want to cause someone else to get ill because I didn’t take preventive measures;-)…

thread

22 Tuesday Oct 2019

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this little flower made me think of all those I know who are hanging on by a thread for a variety of reasons… even though it has been cold and snowy it is still blooming…

I was also thinking of a friend’s comment that they couldn’t pull out the plants that were still flowering in their garden, lol…

beauty is all around us, if we just take a moment to look…

knocked…

19 Saturday Oct 2019

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went to PTE this afternoon… the play was thought-provoking and very well done…

walked home from Portage Avenue afterwards…

so many broken branches along the way…

that snowstorm really knocked around the trees and the city will be recovering for a long time…

write…

17 Thursday Oct 2019

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one of the things I do when I write a blog is check to see if I’ve used that particular title previously…

it is a lovely way to review some of the things I’ve written and I am often surprised with what comes up;-)…

sometimes it is rather difficult to find a new word, so I get to see quite a few previous blogs, lol…

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