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reminisce…

05 Tuesday Oct 2021

Posted by sulis303 in business, food, garden, health, life, moments, nature, retirement, Uncategorized, weather

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well, I must say I am tired… but what a delightful day it has been…

got up early and set about preparing for the day… moved 14 bags of mulch, a wheelbarrow and compost can, used the leaf blower to clean the garage floor, set up a table with a tablecloth in case it was too windy to sit outside, put out cushions and rearranged lawn furniture, prepped some fruit and whipped cream… cleaned leaves out of the pond, set out dishes, made coffee and sun tea, wrapped a gift and wrote two cards…

sat and read in the garden for half an hour and then welcomed four of the most wonderful women into the space…

visited, ate some delicious food from Feast Bistro, enjoyed the nature around us, laughed, shared stories and celebrated one another with some delicious options…

nearly lost one umbrella to the gusts of wind, but the weather was quite amazing for early October…

when they left, I finished tidying up and got ready for dinner with another wonderful woman…

when she arrived we had fish and chips (which I love), more stories and laughter… what a great visit…

it is dark now and I just finished a bowl of strawberry shortcake with whipped cream as I sit on the deck (quite comfortable in shorts and a sleeveless shirt) and reminisce about all the great parts of the day…

hope you had a good day as well…

empowering…

08 Sunday Mar 2020

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big girl pants, blessed, empowering, equal, Famous Five, flowers, friends, hands, International Women's Day, leader, matriarch, memories, mentor, moments, Ottawa, raise up, remembering, support, widow, women

I have been so impressed with the responses to International Women’s Day this year…

businesses and individuals have made concerted efforts to share information about the number of women in their organizations or focussed on amazing women they know or work with… watching women lifting up other women is so empowering… there is much to do, but a positive sign as we continue to raise one another up and work toward an equal world…

this has made me think of the women in my life who have been excellent role models, mentors and friends…

the matriarchs in my family: my great grandmother Josephine, my grandmother Violet, my mother Audrey… the women who have lived through life with me: Janice, Naomi, Marlene and Pat… those who I have spent time and learned from and with over twenty-five years as we studied and reimagined the church, religion and spirituality…

my neighbours: Ellen, Lorraine, BA and Lynn… the wide range of women I have worked with over the years who have demonstrated what it means to be a leader… the young women in my life who have taught me so much…

as I was searching for just the right photo I found these three… the first is hands working together… the second is from the Famous Five statue in Ottawa… the last portrays all of those who circle me with their knowledge, support and love…

Happy International Women’s Day…

women…

08 Friday Mar 2019

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over the last few days I’ve had the opportunity to spend a bit of time with some of the wonderful women who’ve been part of my life, but I haven’t seen much of recently…

had a great time on Wednesday evening with a very special woman in my life…

and was happy to find a young friend who has been connected to our family for many, many years… she spotted me at an event and came over for a few minutes to visit… how lovely to catch up on her life and family… one of many young women who has called me mom for years…

yesterday, at another event, spent a few minutes with a dear woman… it was just great to be in the same place and see her, even if we didn’t have much time together… I still melt when I recall her introducing me to someone as the mother of her heart...

later, another young friend stopped by the house for a few minutes… can’t even think of when we last spent time together…

reminders of how blessed I am and of the amazing women who are part of my circles, even when I don’t connect with them often…

great memories on this International Women’s Day…

feels as though this bouquet symbolizes the variety of women in my life… all beautiful, all different, and all making me happy…

end…

08 Saturday Dec 2018

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1993, big girl pants, conversation, end, friends, ReImagining, special, together, widow, women

since 1993 I’ve been meeting with a group of women regularly (nearly monthly) to discuss all kinds of things from religion, to spirituality, to politics, to healthcare, to family life… we’d have supper, check-in with one another, and then spend some time focussed on a topic of interest…

the size and membership of the group has changed over the years but there are a few who were there from the very beginning…

today we met to possibly end our gatherings… we had a wonderful lunch of chicken souvlaki, lemon potatoes, Greek salad and fresh buns… one of the meals we have enjoyed many times over the years…

we’ve met in one another’s homes, made food from scratch, brought food in from fancy shops, and ordered meals… it has always been about being together, more than what we were eating, lol… although we do love to eat;-)…

it was lovely to have the conversation about how important the group has been to everyone…

we’ve decided to continue to meet on a less regular basis, either around the equinox/solstice or a few times a year…

happy to know we will still gather as these are very special people to me… you don’t find women like this just anywhere…

thoughtful…

12 Monday Feb 2018

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big girl pants, cake, difficult, half pipe, reimagine, thoughtful, vegan, widow, women

had a lovely evening with some women who I haven’t seen for months…

what a treat… delicious dinner – a meat stew and a vegan one as well – and thoughtful conversation…

there was cake for dessert, but I waited till I got home and had some dark chocolate and almonds while watching the men’s half pipe;-)…

we talked about the many difficult things happening in the world and how we might reimagine ways to deal with them… what we might do in our small corner…

a lot to think about…

cookie…

12 Wednesday Jul 2017

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had a very lovely evening on Monday… 

was picked up from the office by a friend, and went off for supper and a visit with eight other amazing women…

supper was potato salad, three bean salad, chicken breast, strawberries, ice cream, chocolate sauce and chocolate cookies… it was delicious…

actually, I didn’t have the ice cream or the chocolate sauce, but I could not pass up the cookie and strawberries…

we always spend some time discussing an interesting topic… during our conversation we talked about what we remembered of our childhood…

on reflection it seemed like most of the group had not had happy childhoods although at the time it seemed normal…

was very interesting to hear that so many of us did not have the picture perfect childhood that everyone imagines…

tonight I was out with someone else and we discussed the fact that her childhood was nothing to write home about…

it appears that those of a similar age were brought up in a less-happy and more focused manner than we imagined everyone else was…

interesting conversations… 

wonder how our children will view their childhoods…

topics…

08 Monday May 2017

Posted by sulis303 in family, food, health, life, loss, nature, Photography, technology, travel, Uncategorized

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amazing, big girl pants, BS, flowers, project, topics, widow, women

great evening with my BS buddies…

tonight they helped me finish up a project for an event tomorrow… four sets of hands make any piece of work get completed much quicker…

never know what topics we will cover in our time together… tonight we touched on pianos, rubber coated driveways, housing, people skills, travel, teaching, busy schedules, sleep patterns, and chairs…

can’t even imagine where I’d be without these amazing women…

flowers make me happy too;-)…

shopping…

06 Thursday Apr 2017

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big girl pants, CityPlace, Farmers Market, Home and Garden Show, late supper, loot, shopping, treasures, weekend, widow, women

been a long full week…

did have some fun at lunch when a few of us went shopping at the final Farmers Market at CityPlace…

picked up a gift, Aschenti chocolate, peach and ginger tea, and a cooling neckband…

at the end of the day I was exhausted, but my daughter called and wanted to meet and take a wander through the Home and Garden Show…

so, after work I met her and a friend and we walked over to the Convention Centre and toured the show…

found a few treasures… delicious fudge, very similar to what my dad would make… cool hooks that appear to be invisible… and some neat containers that flatten when not in use… and we ran into a number of people we knew…

on our way back to the cars we stopped at Boston Pizza for wings and nachos…

a very late supper… but a fun time with these young women…

here’s the loot;-)…

good thing I don’t get out much, lol… no longer tired and a great start to my weekend…

women…

08 Wednesday Mar 2017

Posted by sulis303 in family, food, health, life, loss, nature, Photography, technology, Uncategorized

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amazing, big girl pants, blessed, International Women's Day, me, surrounded, widow, women

on this International Women’s Day I have been thinking of all the amazing women I am surrounded by…

whether they are family, friends, colleagues, acquaintances, or those I’ve seen from afar… 

whether they are alive or dead…

whether they know it or not…

they have had a part in making me me…

I am blessed…

mandala…

17 Monday Oct 2016

Posted by sulis303 in family, health, life, loss, nature, Photography, technology, Uncategorized

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beautiful, big girl pants, colouring, group, mandala, pencils, sweet potato chili, widow, women

tonight I gathered with a wonderful group of women…

we had a lovely dinner of sweet potato and bison chili with a salad and lovely fresh bread…

during our meal we checked in with one another and when we finished we spent a wonderful hour colouring mandalas…

we talked about everything as we coloured…

same picture, same coloured pencils, completely different outcomes… all beautiful…

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