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right-handed…

05 Thursday Dec 2024

Posted by sulis303 in business, life, loss, moments, retirement, technology, Uncategorized

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big girl pants, blessed, moments, remotes, right-handed, Shaw, Technology, tv, widow

we’ve had Shaw since the middle of September and I am slowly getting used to it…

one of the things I’ve noticed is how stiff all the buttons are on the remotes…

the one I use in the bedroom is stiff but works fine…

the one in the den appears to be made for a right-handed person…

no matter what I do it only turns on when I use my right hand, and even then, it doesn’t always work…

kind of frustrating;-(…

seventy-six…

04 Wednesday Dec 2024

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beloved, big girl pants, birthday, blessed, burgers, family, food, memories, moments, remembering, seventy-six, Technology, time, widow

today would have been my beloved’s seventy-sixth birthday…

I have come across a few lovely memories…

from visiting beaches, playing with grandkids, eating with family, cold weather fun, to barbecuing dinner…

such wonderful memories…

tonight burgers were eaten in Winnipeg and Ottawa to remember a very special person…

soft-spoken…

23 Saturday Nov 2024

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November 18 was my dad’s birthday and I’ve been thinking of him a lot lately…

he was kind, generous with what he had, and always thinking of others…

he looked after my brother and I for many years while my mom was in hospital and he took care of her when she was home…

he was soft-spoken and I don’t think I ever heard him shout or speak in a loud voice to anyone, but if he gave you the look (which didn’t happen too often), you knew to pay attention…

he was also the one who taught me that everyone deserved fairness, a second chance, and appreciation for a job well done…

he was very special;-)…

recovered…

16 Saturday Nov 2024

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beloved, big girl pants, blessed, bunny, family, George, heart surgery, memories, moments, recovered, remembering, widow

just yesterday I was looking at this bunny which we gave to my beloved when he had his heart surgery…

today in my memories this photo of my beloved in the hospital as he recovered came up…

I sure do miss him, sigh…

turmoil…

09 Saturday Nov 2024

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big girl pants, blessed, calm, card, dove, hard times, heavy, memories, moments, peace, turmoil, widow

when I was cleaning and reorganizing the computer room, I came across a few items that I usually put out around Christmas, but with all the recent turmoil going on, felt like now was the time to bring them out…

one is a white dove that I hung onto the Japanese Maple in the front window…

and the other is a stunning card that a friend got me for Christmas many years ago, which I placed in the dining room where I can see it…

I’ve been spending quite a bit of time thinking of those around me who are dealing with health issues and heavy life events and I am feeling more calm as I gaze upon these…

scrubbing…

02 Saturday Nov 2024

Posted by sulis303 in life, loss, moments, retirement, Uncategorized, weather

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big girl pants, blessed, family, memories, moments, poppy, rail, remembering, scrubbing, weather, widow

yesterday I went into the garden and pulled out the metal poppy… luckily the ground wasn’t too frozen…

brought it into the house, gave it a good scrubbing and then took it out to the front step…

I found two small bungee cords to attach it to the rail… it looks pretty good…

and today I pulled out my poppy with the cool centrepiece and put it on my coat…

we must not forget…

grungy…

26 Saturday Oct 2024

Posted by sulis303 in garden, health, life, loss, moments, nature, retirement, Uncategorized, weather

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beloved, big girl pants, blessed, cleaning, garden, grungy, moments, pond, pump, weather, widow

today I worked on one of my least favourite jobs…

I cleaned a pond pump…

it is grungy and messy work, but I am always happy when all the bits and pieces are clean and ready to be put away for the winter…

one down and one to go, lol…

am missing my beloved, who would have got the job done in a flash;-)…

those big girl pants, sigh…

McIntosh…

25 Friday Oct 2024

Posted by sulis303 in business, garden, life, loss, moments, retirement, technology, Uncategorized, weather

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big girl pants, blessed, design, drink, McIntosh, moments, mug, shape, Technology, widow

a few weeks ago one of my McIntosh mugs was broken as we met in the garden for our weekly gathering… I’m sure it had nothing to do with the table I had put on a slant, lol…

we really enjoyed the opportunity to be outside, as nice warm days are getting few and far between…

after much searching online, I ordered a chickadee mug in my favourite shape…

it arrived today and I was pleased to see that it will look nice when I hold it…

most mugs only have the design visible for right handed people…

wired…

18 Friday Oct 2024

Posted by sulis303 in business, life, loss, moments, retirement, technology, Uncategorized, weather

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big girl pants, blessed, camera, electrical, Geeni, moments, motion sensor, Shaw, Technology, widow, wired

today we removed the wired Geeni motion sensing light/camera on the garage that no longer works since we changed to Shaw, sigh… this one, as well as two cameras inside the house, stopped working, but the one in the garden is still working perfectly…

it didn’t take too long, but dealing with any type of electrical always makes me nervous…

so far it looks good…

hoping that we can sell the one we took down as it worked perfectly;-)…

lifetime…

16 Wednesday Oct 2024

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big girl pants, church, empty, friends, lifetime, memories, moments, struggles, time, widow

walked past the empty lot which used to hold a church where I spent many hours in what feels like a previous lifetime…

thought about all the times I had parked the car alongside it and the satisfaction and struggles that had ensued in it…

and the amazing results… the wonderful friends who have been with me through so many life events…

life is certainly a journey and involved big girl pants, even then…

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